Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Lilly's Words of Wisdom

To My new friends,

Times are not easy at the moment, not even this household is not without it's drama. So I don't want to sell you something that is not useful, would make a difference in your life, even the way you think.

I do have the right to present a product (Magic of Making Up) that may, or may not, change you in some way.

Suggestions are my way of thinking.

Take what you need and store the rest to share with a friend or it may come in handy years down the road.

I believe in honesty, Integrety, while being conscience of what is right, and wrong.

I can't remend anything that I haven't tried or experienced first hand in my own life. Having a
guide beside you sometimes is helpful, but being a friend with a few suggestions is more
personalible. We all need close friends when in times of trouble. Personally, I need someone to
talk, and as I suspect, you do too.

So my friend,

How can I help?

These articles I'm going to share with you (one a week), are suggestions ONLY! You know your life, I don't! Share it with a friend that needs you. Open your mind to a friend that is trying to understand, even if it doesn't make sense at that moment. I know me, you know you. Maybe, Magic of Making Up will help even in a small way.

Over the next few weeks Magic of Making Up will begin to be featured on Lilly's Cafe. I invite your comments too. I too, can learn from you my friend.

We'll talk soon, in the mean time, in between time, chin up! We'll go thru this together.

Until then,

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Weaving A Tail On Welfare

To my fellow bloggers,

I wanted to weave you a tail of being on welfare, but for some reason it's hard to discribe to you. After being on it
for almost 31 years, with a year or two off working, then back on. I'm not sure if you will agree or not. My tail begins back in 1978 when I went to look for my birthmother. I had no idea what life was like outside the home. I met my birthmother, knew her for one year before she passed away. She was only 48, and well, the rest
of it is for another time. (I'm trying to working on a book that will weave yet another tail of my life.)

I can not tell you how or what to feel, when to buy this or that, this is up to you to decide whether or not I should be
worthy of asking for help. This help comes from blogging. Trying to sell you something that I can't afford to buy myself. I'm asking you to trust me, that my words are true. They are, but not with some new fad this or that, but with the knowledge of understanding. Understanding the internet, and ways to make money are as vast with the number of people online. We can upsell, downsell, but some of us have the need to sell something. If you believe in the product, then buy, if not, that's ok too.

I could send you to this site www.hubpages.com/hub/lillystreats or to www.lilly384blogspot.com or even to this one, www.lilly384wordpress.com , but I'd be lieing if I was to tell you that yes these are good and it lets people know how you are feeling about something, but don't look for a quick fix on making money. I've been trying for over a year. I haven't seen a dime. Why am I any different than those big shot marketers, I'm not. They just know how to spin a web that is pleasing to the eye, pull on the heart strings of promises of riches, that comes from hard work.

Yes, some will disagree, they say, with get up in the morning and have make money over night. It is possible, but for someone who lives on broke most of the month, like one's on welfare, blogging is a great option. If anything, it lets others know how hard it is to get off of it. Living on less than six hundred dollars a month, well, more month after the money is gone, is no picnic! Unless your on welfare, you really don't understand how many hoops one has to jump thru to even begin to get on or off of this system.

Yes, I am greatful for everything I have, including my partner. I just wish I didn't have to rely on welfare to make ends meet, cause they don't!

Until next timeLilly384

P.S. I hope this comes in handy, but if you have a fireplace, and don't want a build up of that nasty stuff in your chimney. Try using potatoe peeling once a month to clear it out. Use about a hand full on a very, very hot bed of coals, this should help. Please let me know if it works. I'll be trying it soon. Sorry, spelling of the proper words I don't have at my figure tips at the moment.

P.P.S. Sorry, On "DIAL UP SERVICE" video's take forever to come in (six or more hours without a phone). If all possible please, please, PDF files work much better. Thank you

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

24 Killer Press Release Secrets

Hi everyone,
I got an e-mail today with these tips on press releases. I thought it maybe helpful to some. Enjoy the menu.

1. Your press release should sound like news, notan ad.

2. You should only send your press release to themedia related to the topic of your press release.
3. Keep your press release one page in length.

4. Your header, contact information and releasedate should be at the top of your press release.

5. Use short sentences and double space your lines.

6. Your header and first few sentences should grabthe readers attention.

7. You should tell a story and mention your business,product or service in the body of the press release.

8. Proofread your press release many times. Lookfor grammar and spelling mistakes.

9. Write a press release about the new products orservices you're offering on your web site.

10. Create a press release about the results of anonline survey or poll you have completed.

11. Submit a press release about a trade show orseminar you're hosting.

12. Write a press release about no cost chat roomclasses you are teaching.

13. Create a press release about your opening of anew web site.

14. Submit a press release about an online awardyour business or web site has won.

15. Write a press release about a free e-zine you'republishing.

16. Create a press release about online products orservices you're giving away.

17. Submit a press release about an online businessassociation or club you're starting.

18. Write a press release about a famous personthat's endorsing your business.

19. Create a press release about a joint venture youare doing with another business.

20. Submit a press release about a new book ore-book you wrote.

21. Write a press release about an expert who isspeaking in your chat room.

22. Create a press release about a fundraising eventyou're doing at your web site.

23. Submit a press release about a new contest orsweepstakes you're having at your site.

24. Write a press release about major sponsorshipsyou're doing online.

I enjoyed this Quote, thought I would include it. Enjoy your day! Until next time

Quote of the Day: "Cultivate more joy by arranging your life so that more joy will be likely." -- Georgia Witkin

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

What Can I do To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

Most people find themselves asking "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back" following a
breakup. They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have
been done differently. They even begin to make plans about apology letters and other things that might be able to help them score their relationship back.

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else: Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup. Women become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it is only harmful to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.

The first main strategy to answer the question about "what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back" is to forget about the relationship for a while, putting your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, have fun, network, and forget about women in general. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people.

Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from
your ex and it will work wonders.The effect that strategies like this will have, is that
it will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. And in how you perceive the subject of
relationships. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.
Do you still want to get back together with her? Or
are you ready to move on? Act accordingly. If you
still want to get back together with her, it might be
time to figure out how she is feeling about you.
Now is your chance to be a little more direct when
it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back. You
need to play strategically, however. Do not simply
beg her to get back with you, because this is not a
good time to be emotional.
Instead, what you should be doing is playing things
cool with your ex. If you have spent enough time
apart from her, she is probably missing you as
badly as you are missing her. Play hard to get a
little (don't over do it) and show her that you are
doing fine without her. This will inspire her to really
rethink things.
And if getting back together with your ex really is
meant to be, now is the time when it will become
apparent. Be careful not to analyze things too
much, because over analyzing may prevent you
from acting the right way when trying to figure out
"what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back". Just
take things slow and play them cool and you
should be fine.
Good luck, Until Next timeLilly384
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Monday, January 19, 2009

Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Hi my friend,

Are there 'magic' words you can useto get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE wordsthat will nearly cast a spell and make your exfeel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you becausethis is one of the biggest questions I getfrom the over 35,000 subscribers justlike you that are trying to put their relationshipback together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I getmy ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"


In the Magic Of Making Up, I layout a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, withoutan 'overall' plan or strategy...you maydamage your relationship more than ifthey never returned your call.

****************What NOT to Say!****************

Before we get into the actual words, let'sgo over what message almost NEVERworks.
and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rdtime I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."


"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call meas soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong withboth of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
********How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage********

Two of the most powerful forces inthe human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, youhave a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

Let's look at what you can saythat works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to letyou know I appreciate what you did forme. Call me because I want to thank youin person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosityand self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?""What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. Andhe feels good because it is a positive message.


Before you call you need to do the"Set Up"...which is figuring out whathe/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs tobe plausible.

But more importantly...

************2nd WARNING!************
Please have an underlying strategylike I lay out in the Magic Of MakingUp System BEFORE you call.


If you apply this technique withno underlying strategy and theycall you back you can do moreDAMAGE than good if you do nothandle it correctly.


What I am saying is...
What you do before, during andafter you get them to return your call is MORE important than gettingthem to return your call.

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It's me! Lilly384

The Magic of 34 Rules

Hi everyone, Just sharing some rules of what I haven't figured out yet. They may come in handy for you (then again, me too!). A good friend shared these rules with me, so I'm passing it on to you. Please share them too!

Now instead of keeping the rules a secret or making you go hunt for them on my blog -- here are all 34 rules right here:

It's got to be a BIG idea that you, your team and your customers can "get" in seconds.

Strive to create 10x -- 100x in value for any price you charge. Your rewards are always proportionate to the value you provide.

You must charge a premium price so you have a large margin to provide an extraordinary value & experience.

Provide a 'Reason Why' customers should do business with you and pay you a premium.

Get paid before you deliver your product or service. And when possible figure out how to create recurring revenue from transactions.

You get to make the rules for your business. Don't let industry norms dictate how you'll work or who you'll work with.

Create your business around your life instead of settling for your life around your business.

Consistently and constantly force yourself to focus on the 'critically few' proactive activities that produce exponential results. Don't get caught up in minutia & bullshit.

Seek to minimize start-up risk but have maximum upside potential.

Get your idea out there as fast as possible even if it's not quite ready by setting must-hit deadlines. Let the market tell you if you have a winner or not. If not -- move on and fail forward fast! If it's got potential -- then you can make it better.

Find partners and team members who are strong where you are weak and appreciate being paid on results.

Your reputation always counts. Honor your obligations and agreements.

Never, ever get paid based on hours worked.

Leverage your marketing activities exponentially by using direct response methods and testing.

Measure and track your marketing so you know what's working and what's not.

Bootstrap. Having too much capital leads to incredible waste and doing things using conventional means.

Your partners and employees actions are their true core -- not what they tell you.

Keep asking the right questions to come up with innovative solutions. "How?", "What?", "Where?", "Who Else?" & "Why?" open up possibilities.

You'll never have a perfect business and you'll never be totally "done". Deal with it.

Focus most of your time on your core strengths and less time working in areas you suck at.

Make it easier for customers to buy by taking away the risk of the transaction by guaranteeing what you do in a meaningful way.

Always have something else to sell (via upsell, cross-sell, follow-up offer, etc) whenever a transaction takes place. The hottest buyer in the world is one who just gave you money.

Always go back to your existing customers with exceptional offers and reasons they should give you more money. It's 5x less expensive to sell to happy customers than go find new ones.

However the flip side is - fire your most annoying customers. They'll be replaced with the right ones.

The marketplace and competitors are always trying to beat you down to a commodity. Don't let that happen.

Develop and build your business's personality that stands out. People want to buy from people.

Create your own category so you can be first in the consumer's mind.

Go the opposite direction competitors are headed -- you'll stand out.

Mastermind and collaborate with other smart entrepreneurs if they have futures that are even bigger than their present.

Celebrate your victories. It's too easy to simply move on to your next goal without acknowledging and appreciating the 'win'.

Make your business AND doing business with you FUN!

Do the unexpected before and after anything goes wrong so customers are compelled to 'share your story'.

Get a life! Business and making money are important but your life is the sum total of your experiences. Go out and create experiences & adventures so you can come back renewed and inspired for your next big thing.

Give back! Commit to taking a % of your company's sales and make a difference. If this becomes a habit like brushing your teeth pretty soon the big checks with lots of zeros won't be scary to write. If you think you can't donate a percentage of your sales simply raise your price.

Until next time