Hi my friend,
Are there 'magic' words you can useto get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE wordsthat will nearly cast a spell and make your exfeel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?...
I am going to share this with you becausethis is one of the biggest questions I getfrom the over 35,000 subscribers justlike you that are trying to put their relationshipback together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I getmy ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
BUT...
***********WARNING!***********
In the Magic Of Making Up, I layout a complete strategy.
http://rosie384.makingup.hop.clickbank.net
If you use this technique alone, withoutan 'overall' plan or strategy...you maydamage your relationship more than ifthey never returned your call.
****************What NOT to Say!****************
Before we get into the actual words, let'sgo over what message almost NEVERworks.
and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rdtime I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call meas soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong withboth of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
********How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage********
Two of the most powerful forces inthe human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, youhave a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can saythat works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to letyou know I appreciate what you did forme. Call me because I want to thank youin person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosityand self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?""What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. Andhe feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the"Set Up"...which is figuring out whathe/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs tobe plausible.
But more importantly...
************2nd WARNING!************
Please have an underlying strategylike I lay out in the Magic Of MakingUp System BEFORE you call.
http://rosie384.makingup.hop.clickbank.net
If you apply this technique withno underlying strategy and theycall you back you can do moreDAMAGE than good if you do nothandle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during andafter you get them to return your call is MORE important than gettingthem to return your call.
Make sense?
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Rooting For You,
Rosie384
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